影响着我们整个人生的方向和性格

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杨朱的追求
——黄东添


  

  杨朱的追求

  　　

  　　老牌哲学家杨朱说只要我不愿意给的，拔一根毛都不可以，从前认为这老杨也太吝啬了，给人一根毛或许能帮助别人，这有什么不妥当的。如果是我，别人要我帮助，而我又不那么乐意我还是会去做的，不就是帮点帮嘛，有什么了不起的。

  　　现在想，老杨说得大妙了，自己不愿意给的，那又给了，就成了勉强，勉强做的事情是没有快乐，那做了又有何用呢？不能为了别人的快乐而毁了自己的快乐，人生是自己的，如果一个人做了太多违背自己意愿的事情，那这人生又有什么奈何治疗婴幼儿外耳湿疹乐趣可言。而如果一个人这一生都以己不欲而施之于人，那就没有时间做自我。我们也知道，很多帮忙可以如他人自己去完成的，帮了是给了他们懒散的借口，也浪费了自己的时间。

  　　人生不是为了什么主义，而是为了属于自我的快乐，能让自己得到快乐的事，能让自己内心满足的事，才是我们必须去做的事。比如一个人给人帮助，自我没有内心的冲动，帮了不能让自己得到满足，那为什么要出手相援？杨朱不是说见到别人有难我就不帮助他，而是在他的意识中做了这件事会不会浪费自己做自我的时间，能不能给他本人带来人生的乐趣，如果是有违于自我意志的，那就没有做的必要。

  　　杨朱是说帮助他人要有一个前提，那就是保全自我，一个人生在世上的时间是有限的，追逐快乐的时候也是有限的，如果用自己追逐快乐的时间花在帮助别人之中而失去了自我，那有什么用呢？所以帮忙别人要有一个限度，越过了某一个限度就等于毁掉了自我，没有了自我的忘我就没有快乐而言，这人生也就是没有价值的人生。

  　　在我们的国家，很多人不是在追寻自我，而是有些人想着多干活的忘我，一些人等着别人多做而自己少干的过份自我，在迷失自我中生活，而不按照自己的意愿，这样的人生不是不好，但至少缺少内心的欢乐，因而无限度的帮助不能让自己人生满足，不管内心乐不乐意都不相援也不快乐，只有按照自己的意愿，才能享有快乐人生

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